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Etsy Find: Convertible Infinity Bridesmaid Dress

08.31.2010 / Etsy Finds / 6 comments

Etsy never seems to stop amazing me with the fun things I find on there.  Today’s shop is from Erin Leigh Heart, a “PR and marketing graduate turned Etsian”.  She makes these beautiful, one-size-fits-all, bridesmaid dresses from high quality jersey satin.

Bridesmaid Wrap Dress

Bridesmaid Wrap Dress

Here are some of the MANY ways you can wear this little number:

Bridesmaid Wrap Dress

And of course, here are some non-wedding-related ways to wear it:

Bridesmaid Wrap Dress

I think it goes without saying how much I love the versatility, style and look of this dress.  What are your thoughts?

Click on any photo above to be taken directly to her shop.  :o)  You know you want to.

6 comments
  • Caren August 31, 2010 10:38 am

    That is so cool!!! LOVE it !

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  • Sarah August 31, 2010 11:13 am

    Wow, that is insane how many looks you can get out of one dress! And they look adorable in those wedding images!! You’d never guess that they were the same dress. That’s crazy. Good find!!

  • Lauren Brimhall August 31, 2010 11:27 am

    That’s so cool that you can totally re-wear them!

    • dpnak August 31, 2010 11:28 am

      I love it! And for $98 – it’s not the typical bridesmaid dress that “you can shorten it and totally wear it again”… LOVE!

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  • Feeding your vendors – When? What? Ahh!

    08.30.2010 / Tips + Advice / 3 comments

    Happy Monday to all!  Things are getting busier every day here at DP, and it’s so exciting.  I’ve got a busy week planned including a pow-wow with Kellie (an awesome graphic designer who I’m sure you will be hearing more about) and another with Ken from Transposure Photography (if you haven’t seen any of his ultra-stunning work, I highly suggest checking his website out).  But anyway, today I want to talk about food (yum!).

    Wedding Table

    A common question that I am asked by my couples is “Do I need to feed the vendors?”  I also get the ever-popular “What am I supposed to feed my vendors?”  Finally, no one ever seems to know “When are the vendors supposed to eat?”  While there is no technical right or wrong answer to any of these questions, there is definitely an easy way to get to the answer that works for you.

    First thing to find out…  Is there something in your vendors contract that specifically states that they be fed and what they be fed?  It’s not a super-common clause in a contract, but I do know that there are some who require when, where and what they are fed.  Know this in advance.

    The next thing to look at is…  How long will the vendor be working on your wedding day?  Let’s say you have a photographer hired for the start of your “getting ready” pictures and will be there through the throwing of the bouquet.  Chances are, they are looking at 10+ hours of working on their feet and hustling along with the events of the day.  Would they appreciate if you fed them?  It’s very likely.  In my personal opinion, any vendor who will be working for you for 7 or more hours on the day of your wedding should be given at least a half an hour to sit and eat.

    Ok… so what should they eat?  Depending on your caterer or venue, there may be options when it comes to “vendor meals”.  Some places will serve exactly what the guests are receiving.  Some will make a less-expensive plate consisting of simpler food.  Some will work with you on price and some won’t.  Does it matter to the vendor?  Chances are, they are grateful they are receiving a plate of food and a chair to sit on.  If, for some reason, meals are not able to be provided to your vendors, it is essential that you let them know prior to the wedding day so they can pack a quick meal to eat when it’s convenient.  Again, some vendors “require” they receive the same meal as the guests, so be sure to read your contracts.

    Finally – when should the vendors eat?  It seems there is a bit of debate regarding this topic.  The best advice I have is, “after the wedding party and not last”.  Yes, I know.  Should the “hired help” (love that term) really be invited to feast before the guests?  That decision is up to you, but look at it this way.  Once the last bit of guests are served, the festivities typically begin to pick up, whether the videographer is done eating or not.  It’s best to get the vendors fed earlier rather than later to avoid any missed moments or special happenings that should be captured or taken care of.

    Again, like I said, there are no right or wrong answers.  You must do what’s best for you – but just be sure to keep the vendors in the loop as to what’s going on. Communication is key. And remember, that’s what you hired a coordinator for!  ;o)

    {photo credit: Big Stock Photo}

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  • Marino M. Regalado - Hawaii Wedding Emcee, Ninja Entertainment August 30, 2010 8:35 pm

    Thank you for a well-written and thought-out post! This is something that my clients ask me often, and both the client’s and wedding professional’s wishes should all be communicated and agreed upon long before the wedding day to avoid any misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and awkwardness.

    The one thing that should not be open for discussion is DRINKING on the job. While a meal is greatly appreciated, at no time should a wedding professional imbibe while in service to the client. No other profession (including bartenders!) allows their people to drink on the job, so why should we? Even if a bride or groom offer me a drink at the wedding, I politely decline, and if they insist, I simply tell them that they can take me out for a drink after the wedding, when they get back from their honeymoon.

    Great post! Thanks for writing it.

    • dpnak August 31, 2010 7:44 am

      Marino -

      Thank you for your comment. I’m with you when it comes to drinking. Unfortunately, not all professionals, and I use that word lightly, respect their clients or their profession. But everyone handles things differently, I suppose. Too often when a person owns their own business, and they’re not working for someone else, they let some rules slip. I feel that they forget that it is a direct reflection on them AND their company.

      But again, thank you for the comment! And by the way, Hawaii? I’m jealous.

    Real Wedding: Kind words from Katie + Joe

    08.27.2010 / Real Weddings / 2 comments

    Happy Friday everyone!  I came home from our “bowling night” last night to find an amazingly sweet review from this past weekend’s couple.  It’s so kind and of course, I had to share with you.  Hearing (err… reading?) things like this make me so proud of my hard work.

    “Danielle was great! She truly took all the stress off me on my wedding day and I got to enjoy my day. Before the wedding, she always answered all my phone calls and emails and helped IMMENSELY in the planning! She was a godsend the day of the wedding and took care of every detail! She made sure everything ran on schedule and helped with decorations, timelines, and about a million other things…. too many things to list! Honestly, I can’t imagine my wedding day without her there helping out. I think it would of turned out to be a disaster without her help!! I can’t thank her enough for everything she has done!!!”

    It was definitely a “sweet” treat to be a part of your wedding, Katie + Joe!  Looking at your prom pictures, and then seeing you getting married – it was a special moment and one that I was really honored to be a part of.  So glad I can help and I’m looking forward to staying in touch!

    {photo credit: hijacked from Facebook, and taken by Brittany Bennett Czerw}

    Side note: In this photo, you see me fixing the bustle on Katie’s beautiful dress that had broken about 10 minutes into the celebration.  My question to wedding gown designers/seamstresses: Why do you create such inefficient bustles?  How do you expect a tiny piece of thread and a beautiful, but wimpy, pearl button to hold up 40 lbs. of dress?  I’m just curious.  I’m thinking about inventing something that fixes this problem for all brides.  I’ll keep you posted.  In the meantime, any ideas?

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  • Meagan Vanover August 27, 2010 7:53 am

    Ack. I have re-sewn many-a-bustle. Keep me posted on your invention!

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  • 4 Ways to Make a Donation After the Wedding

    08.26.2010 / Tips + Advice / no comments

    Did you ever look at a word so long that it started to not look right or sound right?  Well that just happened to me with the word “donation” so bear with me.  Every time I see it now, it kind of makes me giggle.  Happens to me a lot with the word “of”, too.  What a funny little word!  But anyway…

    Due to the fact that we were recently added as a member to the Green Bride Guide, I thought that it would be a good day to spread some eco-love.  That being said, there are many ways that you can be eco-lovely throughout your wedding planning process (and life), but today I wanted to focus on four easy ways to make a difference by donating (tee-hee).

    ONE – flowers

    When the celebration is over, you may ask your guests to take home your beautiful centerpieces.  But, sometimes you’re still left with a large amount of flowers at the end of the night.  Chances are, if you leave them at the venue, they will be trashed.  Why not appoint someone (see my “who’s going to be your someone?” article) to take them and donate them the next day?  Floral arrangements can be taken to nursing homes, hospitals, or care facilities – with great appreciation from the residents and patients.

    TWO – food

    Another way to donate to your local community would be with all that leftover food.  Some states have restrictions on food donations (check with your caterer or venue), but you should be able to donate some of your leftovers and untouched food to food banks, homeless shelters or hunger-relief programs in your area.

    THREE – in lieu of favors

    An decision that you have, as a couple, is determining what you’d like to give to your guests as a “thank you” for coming.  I love cute favors, but at the end of the night, I can’t even begin to tell you how many I’ve seen left behind.  A great idea would be to make a donation to your favorite charity (or charities) in your guests’ honor.  Create small cards (on recycled paper) that politely explain your charity, why it’s important to you and what your plans are.  When it’s all said and done, it’s a truly beautiful gift.

    FOUR – the dress

    This one may be a bit harder to swallow.  And I know that not everyone could jump on this bandwagon, but it’s always good to know that the option is there.  Brides Against Breast Cancer™, part of Making Memories, gives brides the opportunity to donate their dress (dating from 2005 or later) to be added to their National Tour of Gowns sale.  The donations they receive allow them to grant final wishes to men and women suffering from terminal breast cancer.  Please visit the website to learn more about how you can donate and help spread the word.

    {photo credits: Adia Photography and Brides Against Breast Cancer™ website}

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    Vendor Spotlight: Lauren Brimhall Photography

    08.25.2010 / Vendor Spotlight / 4 comments

    Greetings everyone!  I’m so excited to be starting my Vendor Spotlight, which I hope to continue each week.  I have to say that I love how this blog has allowed my business to grow and I’m hoping it can continue to do the same for those spotlighted.  They are such good people.  :o)

    Chances are, if you’ve visited this site before, you’ve heard (read? seen?) this girls name several times on many of her beautiful pictures.  She has an amazing heart and a true eye for photography.  I have personally worked with her for two completely different weddings this year, and each one has produced such unique photos that showed the couples personality beautifully.  So, without further ado, I would love to introduce you to Lauren Brimhall of Lauren Brimhall Photography.

    Lauren Brimhall

    Who are you and what’s your company?

    Hello everyone! I’m a Northeast-PA based photographer and owner of Lauren Brimhall Photography. I’ve always been an artist at heart, from winning my first art contest in second grade to having the privilege of teaching some of these media at my alma matter, Hofstra University in NY. With the support of my absolutely amazing husband, Sean, I was finally able to put aside the “realist” in me, and pursue my true passion. Funny how that worked out, as it turns out making a legitimate living as an artist wasn’t “unrealistic” after all. Go figure.

    When and how did your professional journey begin?

    I suppose my initial contact with photography dates back to the classes I took for my Fine Art Minor at Hofstra. My first job out of college was actually working as an editor for three photography magazines on Long Island, NY — Studio Photography (SP&D), Digital Imaging Techniques (DIT) and Photo Trade News (PTN). I was obviously aware of some of the technical information I was gaining from reading/editing all the articles, but what I wasn’t aware of was the “eye” for imagery I was acquiring, inspired by extensive contact with the work of some of the best photographers of 2005 and 2006.

    Apart from that, I made some amazing contacts in the industry, including Mike McNamara and David Jay, who I later called upon to help me on my journey to becoming a photographer. After completing several post-graduate classes out here in Northeastern, PA, being mentored by Jared Wilson (www.jaredwilsonphotography.com) and being given private lessons from some of NY’s photographer greats, I officially began my professional journey in 2009.

    In your opinion, what sets you apart from other business in your profession?

    The hardest thing about being a photographer today is that with the digital revolution everyone with a consumer or prosumer SLR is out there on the weekends trying to make an extra buck doing wedding photography on the side. Many of these “weekend warriors,” while passionate, have no professional education, equipment, or technical skill to back up their creative eye.  Aside from my formal education, I believe my dedication to mastering the technical side of photography and my over-achiever mentality are what set me apart the most. I will always push myself harder than anyone else could possibly push me, which is why I believe I have the perfect personality type for owning and operating a successful business. Speaking of personality, I believe this has also been a factor in why many brides choose to hire me over the competition. This is mainly because, having done some professional modeling myself, I understand EXACTLY how nerve-racking it can be to be in front of a REALLY BIG camera.  From this experience, I also learned how to pose a woman and the importance of relaxing the subject. You can’t put a value on being able to make people laugh in this industry. Let’s just say it’s kind of hard to be nervous when your photographer is making more of an a$$ out of herself from behind the camera than you could possibly be making out of yourself in front of it ;-)

    Besides weddings, are you involved in any other special events?

    I’m mostly a wedding kind of girl. Now, I’m no Danielle Pasternak who has been planning mock weddings since childhood with a Ken doll that’s been remarried more times than Henry the 8th, but I do love weddings. I do the occasional children’s portraits, and once-upon-time did pets, but the wedding work primarily consumes all of my available time during the summer months.

    One of my favorite colors is yellow, what’s yours?

    Deep Purple! Yep, it was one of my colors for my own wedding and now it’s my business color. I’m still looking for disc packaging in that perfect shade. Can someone please tell me what’s so much better about Pomegranite than purple?

    Whether you’re single, married, divorced, or in love – we all have wise words we can share when it comes to relationships. What’s your advice to couples?

    Get married and spend lots of money on wedding photography! I kid, I kid. Seriously, I’m no expert because I haven’t been married as long as some, but I’m pretty sure I can sum up my take on this in one word: tolerance. No one will ever be perfect, and too often we dwell so much on the bad that we take for granted the good. To those couples currently engaged, take just a second to make a mental note of exactly how you feel about your significant other right now and the reasons for which you are committing the rest of your life to him or her. Then later, when he leaves the seat up and she leaves the roll empty for the 100th friggin’ time in a row, remind yourself of these reasons.

    Finally, what’s your favorite part about your profession?

    My favorite part about being a wedding photographer is ALL PARTS! Anyone who talks to me for more than five seconds won’t be able to miss the passion I have for what I do. While the Style Network is out there telling us about all the “Bridezillas” we should expect to encounter, my own experience with engaged women has been quite the opposite. For most women, this is the happiest time in their lives, and if you can’t deal with women when they are happy, well you probably just can’t deal with women.

    While my special day has come and gone, I personally never get tired of celebrating this momentous occasion over and over again with my brides. I’ll never be that photographer who forgets that while I might be at a different wedding every weekend, it is this particular bride’s one and only. Congratulations to all the brides-to-be out there!

    Just in case you haven’t seen… here is some of my favorite work by Lauren.

    {photo source: Lauren Brimhall Photography}

    UPDATE:  Apparently this blogger forgot include one of Lauren’s faves… {below}

    Feel free to contact Lauren at (570) 369-5655 or email here at LaurenBrimhall@gmail.com.  Also, don’t forget to visit her website to view all her beautiful work!

    4 comments
  • SimplyDesigned August 25, 2010 9:56 am

    What an amazing photographer! Love her work!

  • dpnak August 25, 2010 5:05 pm

    And for the record… My Ken doll was not married more times than Henry the 8th. :o)

  • Lauren Brimhall August 25, 2010 11:41 pm

    Awww, thanks so much for posting this Danie! I can’t believe I didn’t catch it right away! The words you said about me are so amazingly kind, I’m so flattered, and can easily fill a blog with all the good things I have to say about you too! Can’t wait to do it. P.S. You posted on of the pics twice, and why did you want ken to be so lonely? Did he cheat on Barbie before the wedding or something?

  • Lauren Brimhall August 25, 2010 11:48 pm

    P.S. I really need to take some recent photos of myself. I’m not even blonde anymore! Where is Sean when you need him?

  • We're approved as a Green Bride Guide green wedding vendor!

    08.24.2010 / In the Press / 2 comments

    Danielle Pasternak Events, a Lehigh Valley based wedding planning and coordinating company, has been selected by the Green Bride Guide, the #1 green wedding website, for inclusion in their Green Wedding Directory (www.greenbrideguide.com/directory).

    The Green Bride Guide is the most comprehensive and credible green wedding resource online. The Directory is like a Yellow Pages for green weddings that provides a centralized resource of green wedding vendors, searchable by geographic area.

    This year, almost 50% of couples are looking to include green elements in their events, and 85% are concerned about greenwashing, the passing off of non-green companies as eco-friendly. To address these concerns, the Green Bride Guides screens all vendors in the directory and displays their green practices in their profiles.  Danielle Pasternak Events received a two leaf rating from the Green Bride Guide.

    Danielle Pasternak Events began in 2009 helping couples in the area with their wedding day activities.  Specializing in day-of coordination, Danielle Pasternak Events focuses on giving brides and grooms a day to remember, relax and enjoy.

    Danielle Pasternak, owner of Danielle Pasternak Events, said “There are many different options when it comes to putting a wedding, or any event, together.  It’s all about making smart decisions and passing the word on to others.  What a great way to start a marriage.”

    “When my husband Barry and I were planning our wedding in 2006-07, we were surprised by how little information was available to help us make eco-friendly choices. That’s why I’m excited to be able to offer couple the Green Bride Guide Directory,” said Kate Harrison.  “By including vendors like Danielle Pasternak Events, couples will know that they are working with vetted green vendors who truly value the environment. Since more than 50% of the wedding budget is spent at the local level, the Directory is an essential tool for couples looking to support the local green economy.”

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  • SimplyDesigned August 24, 2010 5:55 pm

    Congratulations! That is such great news!

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  • Twitter Update!

    08.24.2010 / Uncategorized / no comments

    Hey everyone! Just wanted to send a quick update regarding my twitter account. My username was formerly @ellepnak, but I have changed it to @dpnak. You are all great with your RT’s and #FF’s so I wanted to make sure I updated you!

    And if you’re not following me, now’s your chance!  :o)

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