danielle pasternak, wedding coordinator, wedding planner, scranton

3 easy ways to stay/get in shape for your wedding – without drugs, supplements, or any other crap

06.29.2011 / Tips + Advice / one comment

Alright brides, non-brides, bloggers, men, women, and you. There are about a million things out there claiming they help you lose weight fast, but there are truly a few simple steps you can take that are easy to incorporate into your life. And none require you to purchase a crazy system, track points or starve yourself  (YAY!) By the way, starving yourself actually makes your body think you are dying causing it to hold onto whatever food it does get, which means fat on your body, so it really doesn’t work.

1. Water. This is one of the simplest things and it’s practically free. Everyone should drink half their body weight in ounces every day. Sound like a lot? Might be. Let’s say you weigh 140lbs. That means 70 oz. of water should be going in each day. If you’re looking at one of these 27 oz. bottles from Klean Kanteen, you’ll be drinking one of these 2.5 times. And the more water you drink, the less soda you will put in your body, which means you will notice a HUGE difference in the way you feel. 2. Start some type of exercise. OK, I know. Duh?? But really, exercising your body is going to make you feel loads better. And look at it this way: there are 168 hours in the week. Dedicate 3 of them to exercise and you still have 165 left. That’s not too bad is it? And there are easy ways to start exercising. Two of my favorites are TRX and kettlebells (pictured below) both of which can be done in your living room. I’m also a big fan of Zumba classes.

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3. Eat right. There are a million “diets” and “fads” out there that will tell you you’re going to lose weight fast. Well, most of them include taking things out of your meals and not putting anything back in. I don’t know about you, but I actually like to eat. I enjoy it. So, instead of putting crappy things in my body (chips, slim-jims, fried foods) I started putting MORE good foods in my body (vegetables, quinoa, fruit). I still cheat every now and then, but I try to follow the 80/20 Non-Diet, which basically revolves around the concept that if you eat right 80% of the time, the other 20% won’t matter.

So there, it may be things you’ve heard before, but have you really applied them? They’re simple. I promise.

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  • Kristen June 30, 2011 8:52 am

    Great tips! I like how you pointed out how many hours in the week, and taking 3 hours/week to commit to exercise puts it perspective. I agree with quinoa, one of the most amazing additions to my regime this year, curbs carbs with double the protein!

  • Q&A: Should the mothers’ dresses match the color of the bridesmaids’ dresses?

    The Mother of the Bride and Groom do not have to match the bridesmaids’ dresses, but it is best if they do not clash with them either. It’s also best to keep in mind that the mothers’ dresses should be similar in length, just to keep with the cohesiveness and symmetry in photos.

    It’s not always easy to get both mothers to agree on something, but politely asking them to respect your wishes may help. Being demanding or bossy will often get you nowhere in this battle, or any battle really.

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    Etsy Find: An unnecessary detail, but oh-so-stunning!

    06.25.2011 / Etsy Finds / no comments

    The little details and decor are what will make your wedding stand out and reflect who you are. Most of you know, I’m a big fan of butterflies. Something about their whimsy, delicacy, and beauty just resonates with me. They are also known to symbolize freedom, journeys, and change – all things that can easily switch from bad to good and vice versa.

    But what’s not to love about these cut-outs that can be placed on your guests wine glass or water goblet? Courtesy of MamaTita’s Etsy Shop.

    And I’m never a big fan of custom cake serving sets, just because I don’t see it as really “necessary” (sorry), but these from GetNoticed’s Etsy Shop are really sweet and easily reusable for future occasions (like birthdays, anniversarys, etc.)

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    Real Wedding: Jessica & Sheil – May 29, 2011 Review

    06.22.2011 / Real Weddings / one comment

    Well, Jessica and Sheil have returned from their amazing trip to Greece and they left me such a sweet review (did I mention that Jessica is one the Two Wedding Belles?). And I realized that there were some photos by Girl Photography that I didn’t share with you, so enjoy.

    Being a DOC myself, I knew that I needed an awesome coordinator for my own wedding. Danielle is everything you hope to get when you hire a DOC. She is super-organized and has a positive attitude. Everyone at the wedding enjoyed their interactions with her, and I really cannot imagine pulling off all the little details of the day without her.

    For more reviews from past couples, or to leave a review for me, visit WeddingWire.

    Cheers – xo.

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  • Jessica July 2, 2011 10:30 am

    Aw, I just saw this. I wish you nothing but great success with your business. You are amazing at what you do and it was great having you with us on our wedding day!

  • Designer of the Week: The Cotton Bride

    Last week, I asked my followers on Facebook if they knew of any great eco-friendly (but not 100% frolic-in-the-meadows) bridal gown designers. Megan Acosta of Glamour and Grace told me about The Cotton Bride and I can’t stop looking through their amazing collections. They use natural fabrics like cotton and linen, with hints of lace and beadwork reflective of today’s evolving values, interests, lifestyle and priorities.

    These are just a few of my favorite from the Fireflies Collection.

    By the way, did I mention these couture designs are all made by hand? Gooooorgeous. I think the top-right is my favorite, I think.

    xo.

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  • Jessica June 21, 2011 8:46 am

    Loving these! Like the silhouette of the bottom left one alot.

  • Danielle June 21, 2011 8:59 am

    Oooh – me too! There are SO many beautiful styles, it was tough picking just these four.

  • Elizabeth {Bridal Musings} June 29, 2011 2:52 pm

    Such a fab find! Eco-friendly but not compromising on style ~ love the 50s style dress!

  • Real Wedding: L&L – June 18, 2011 – Instagr.am Pics

    06.20.2011 / Real Weddings / 2 comments

    The wedding at the Sayre Mansion in Bethlehem this past weekend was simply stunning. However, the bride and groom wanted it to be a very private manner which means all the stunning pics I snapped of them must stay with me. But, believe me – they were STUNNING.

    And these fun details were still fun to shoot, too. By the way, LOVING the camera on the iPhone 4 compared to my 3GS – woooo!

    Clockwise from top-left: The table-top in the backyard of the Sayre Mansion, the two coolest cake toppers which may or may not resemble the bride and groom on top of a delicious Granny Schmidt cake, the table numbers were simple but featured a cute bird cut-out that sat atop each tent, some amazing draping work under the tent by Lori Farcus, the reserved signs I whipped together the morning of, and the beautiful bouquet down by Sarah Petryk of Allium Floral Design.

    Stay tuned for some real photos by Lalee Photography of even more gorgeous details!

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  • Mallory June 20, 2011 8:53 am

    Love it!

  • Real Wedding: 5.0 Review from L&L » danielle pasternak events July 1, 2011 11:20 am

    [...] originally told you about L&L’s beautiful wedding a few days ago, and when I received this super-sweet review, I had tears in my eyes. I’ve [...]

  • Real Wedding: 5.0 review from Mark and Mindy – June 4, 2011

    06.19.2011 / Real Weddings / no comments

    While I was at a lovely wedding at the Sayre Mansion in Bethlehem, PA yesterday, I received an email from WeddingWire notifying me that I received a new review. During dinner, I was able to open it up and read one of most detailed and sweetest reviews I’ve had written from a bride and groom.

    On a side note: I love getting reviews from my clients. It’s like getting a report card at the end of the school year. It helps me know what really stood out to them and helps me grow and learn from things they didn’t like. Although I’ve been crazy blessed to receive consistent 5.0 reviews, so I must be doing something right!

    From Mark and Mindy:

    We hired Danielle to be our Day Of Coordinator at our wedding this June. It was a decision we got way more out of than we had realized. We did most of the details of our do-it-yourself wedding and labored over most of our decisions carefully, but realized it would be important to have someone ensuring everything went smoothly the actual day of, even though we didn’t want full fledged planning. Danielle definitely was one of the MOST amazing wedding vendors we could have gotten. From the moment she signed on, she was perfect. She checked in with us routinely but knowing that we had a lot of details we were doing ourselves, she never intruded or was aggressive about her opinions but offered advice when we would ask for it (often at midnight or 2 in the morning, wholesale flowers was a common topic…). She was impeccably professional, so responsive (she may or may not take her Ipad to the bath with her ;) )—literally answering emails with lightening fast timing. She made the trek down to south of Philadelphia where we were having our wedding, went through an entire meeting at our venue, and made sure she was on the same page as we were. She also spent hours of time coordinating with our different vendors to make sure we were in good hands—this was incredibly important as we definitely did not have time to do so and she would consistently check in with checklists/emails to all collaborators. She molded the vendors we had carefully chosen separately into an actually remarkably cohesive team of vendors working for our wedding with our goals in mind instead of just letting the vendors show up on our wedding day and “seeing what would happen.” The actual rehearsal (the night before) and the day-of our wedding was amazing. She walked us through the whole rehearsal, helping us with parts of the wedding that we just couldn’t have known how to really do ourselves (where to be standing, ordering of the procession, cues, etc.). This was really important especially since we wrote the ceremony ourselves but obviously had no experience running an actual wedding.

    The day of—what could be said of her role in this—she was absolutely phenomenal. There are so many things at weddings that just are not in your hands. She was everywhere at once but was unseen—that is EXACTLY what I think you want your wedding coordinator to do. She put out multiple little fires without getting the bride involved, was carefully coordinating timing throughout the day, and being the mother hen by making us get to where we should be on time. From start to finish of the actual wedding, she was on point. She made sure we cut the cake at the right time, had family lined up for the appropriate dances, etc. She also made sure we had everything packed up and taken back to the hotel appropriately.

    Finally, just a note about her—her personality is so vivacious and friendly—she is very easy to work with and it should speak volumes that when we were searching for someone, her name was given to us BY another wedding planner who was using her as the day-of! That sums it up!

    I already replied in a personal email to them both for their kindness, awesomeness and fabulousness, but THANK YOU again!!

    Oh, and Happy Father’s Day everyone! I’m off to enjoy the weather, the pool and my Mom’s amazing grilled chicken. I also hear she has a new recipe that involves green beans, chicken stock and sunflower seeds… oooh!  I love summer.

    xo.

    {stunning photo by SWOONOVERIT}

    To read more reviews of Danielle Pasternak, please visit WeddingWire.

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    Something I want the wedding world to get away from…

    I always try to keep things positive here, but this is something that gets under my skin. It’s definitely a small something, but I still felt the need to blog about it apparently.

    Before I go there, watch this father/daughter dance that was posted on GigMasters yesterday.

    [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcVXCeWk0PE[/youtube]

    Now, as you watched this cute dance between a bride and her dad, did you notice the bridal party standing awkwardly in the background in front of the band? What is that about???? In so many weddings recently, the band leader has told the bridal party that after they are announced they are to stand in front of the band. WHY???

    Some have told me that it makes for a great photo opp. Well, nothing kills a photo more than a bridesmaid or groomsman standing awkwardly, holding their bouquet, staring off into space. Not to say that they won’t be into watching your first dance, or your parent’s dance, but it can potentially be three minutes of you and your partner rocking back and forth. Eventually, they’re going to start day dreaming about that amazing dinner they’re about to eat or complaining about how much their feet hurt – just saying.

    Others have told me that it gets rid of that random moment when the bridal party is actually looking for their seat. Well, no matter what, the bridal party will eventually have to sit down. Point them in the direction of their table and they will figure it out, I guarantee you.

    Alright, so now that I’ve had my soap box moment, can we move away from this crazy thought?

    Have a fabulous day everyone!

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  • Amanda Young | SWOONOVERIT PHOTOGRAPHY June 15, 2011 9:24 am

    AMEN! It’s so distracting. And, half of them don’t even look like they’re paying attention. I think it CAN make for a great photo op if they happen to get emotional and be really into it… but not always, and do you really want them to be the focus of your dance? I don’t know, just my thought.

  • Jenn Roberts June 15, 2011 9:37 am

    Totally agree, nothing like getting a shot of no one paying attention in the background. I’d rather have the parents watching its always more means more!
    As for the dance LOVE IT! This is the 1st time I’ve seen it done father/daughter style, what a great suprise!

  • Jess Siegfried June 15, 2011 10:16 am

    I completely agree… Its awkward, and distracting… Give the bridal party a heads up as to where they are seated prior to their announcement if you are worried about confusion…

    Jess :)

  • jacin {lovely little details} June 15, 2011 11:14 am

    i have never seen this! i agree with you – it’s strange!