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Why I Don’t Offer Day-Of Coordination (and Why You Deserve So Much More)
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Why I Don’t Offer Day-Of Coordination (and Why You Deserve So Much More)

Many couples consider day-of coordination services, thinking they’ll ease wedding planning stress. However, coming in at the last minute can often add to that stress instead of alleviating it. In this post, I share why my Signature Coordination service — where I support you from the very beginning — creates a smoother, more enjoyable planning experience. By earning your trust and being involved throughout, I ensure that every detail is managed, allowing you to focus on what truly matters: fully experiencing the joy of your engagement and wedding day without worry.

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Free Library on the Parkway Wedding | Melissa and Josh
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Free Library on the Parkway Wedding | Melissa and Josh

This late June wedding at the Free Library on the Parkway in Philadelphia was a beautiful celebration of thoughtful details and quiet joy. The couple started their day at The Logan Hotel, with stunning pre-ceremony photos at the Rodin Museum. The bride made a graceful entrance down the grand staircase for a memorable ceremony in the library lobby.

The evening featured a rooftop reception with views of the Philadelphia skyline, where guests enjoyed dinner and dancing under a tent—a perfect choice as rain cooled the night. Thanks to Rachel Betson, who captured and shared the photos, this wedding will be remembered for its elegance and genuine connections.

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The Art of the Wedding Seating Chart: Tips and Tricks
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The Art of the Wedding Seating Chart: Tips and Tricks

Creating the perfect wedding seating chart is crucial for ensuring a smooth and enjoyable reception. This guide offers a step-by-step approach to organizing your seating arrangements, from grouping guests and considering relationships to strategically placing important guests and using digital tools. Avoid common pitfalls by ensuring guest comfort and managing family dynamics effectively. Follow these tips to make your wedding seating chart a success.

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Philadelphia Cricket Club Wedding | Eliza and Thomas
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Philadelphia Cricket Club Wedding | Eliza and Thomas

Eliza and Thomas's elegant and intentional wedding at the Philadelphia Cricket Club was a stunning celebration despite the rain. From heartfelt preparations and a cozy First Look to a magical indoor ceremony and lively reception, every detail reflected their love and dedication. Captured beautifully by James Anderson Photography and enhanced by Robertson’s Flowers, the day was unforgettable for all who attended.

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Wedding Planner Must-Haves: Gear and Gadgets for a Great Wedding Day
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Wedding Planner Must-Haves: Gear and Gadgets for a Great Wedding Day

Discover the essential gear and gadgets every wedding planner needs for a flawless wedding day. From the perfect water bottle and snacks to keep you energized, to must-have attire with pockets and multiple pairs of shoes for ultimate comfort, this guide has it all. Learn about the best bags and tech tools, including a lifesaving emergency kit bag, efficient walkie talkies, and a versatile collapsible wagon to handle heavy-duty setups. Equip yourself with these must-haves to stay organized, comfortable, and ready to tackle any challenge on the big day. Make your wedding planning experience smoother and more enjoyable with these top picks.

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Wedding Party or Party of Two: Debating the Decision
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Wedding Party or Party of Two: Debating the Decision

As a seasoned wedding planner based in Philadelphia, I've seen couples grapple with the age-old question: Do we really need a wedding party? In a city known for its vibrant celebrations, the trend towards a more intimate affair has caught my attention. In this blog post, we'll explore the pros and cons of having a wedding party, offer alternative options for involving loved ones, and ultimately, encourage you to choose what feels right for you and your partner. Let's navigate the maze of wedding planning together, shall we?

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Must-Have Items for Getting Ready on your Wedding Day
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Must-Have Items for Getting Ready on your Wedding Day

As your wedding day draws near, the flurry of excitement and nerves is all too real. You've got your venue locked in, your attire fitted to perfection, and your heart set on a day you'll never forget. But before you say "I do," there's a chapter of the day that demands your attention: the morning of your wedding.

In previous articles, I’ve delved into the intricacies of What to Wear the Morning Of Your Wedding and Six Things To Remember For Getting Ready On Your Wedding Day for a smooth getting-ready process. If you haven't already, be sure to check those out. Today, we're taking it a step further by highlighting the must-have items that will be your steadfast companions as you and your VIPs get ready for the day.

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Party Like a Philadelphian: A Deep Dive into the “East Coast” Wedding Reception Timeline
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Party Like a Philadelphian: A Deep Dive into the “East Coast” Wedding Reception Timeline

Discover the perfect dance of tradition and celebration with this guide to an East Coast wedding reception timeline. From intimate pre-dinner moments to the grand finale on the dance floor, this insider's view unveils the unique rhythm of a Philly-style celebration. Learn how to customize your East Coast timeline, collaborate with vendors seamlessly, and explore our Wedding Timeline template for a stress-free planning experience.

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Rose Bank Winery Wedding | Selina and John
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Rose Bank Winery Wedding | Selina and John

Picture this: a perfect October day, the kind that makes you fall in love with fall all over again. Crisp air, golden leaves, and love in the air. That's exactly what we had the privilege of experiencing at Rose Bank Winery in Newtown, PA, when we helped coordinate Selina and John’s wedding.

This wasn't your typical wedding. It was a fantastic fusion of DIY magic and the expertise of some seriously talented vendors. The couple brought their own flair to the decor, and the result? A wedding that was uniquely and undeniably "them."

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Favorite Wedding Splurges To Elevate Your Day
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Favorite Wedding Splurges To Elevate Your Day

I’m a firm believer that couples should invest in the parts of a wedding that mean the most to them. Outside of the four major aspects of hosting any event (providing food, drink, entertainment, and comfort), I think you — as the couple — are allowed to do (and not do) what makes the most sense for you.

But, in my many years as a wedding planner, there have been a few “splurge” items that can really enhance the day — especially from a guest experience.

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Summertime Glasbern Inn Wedding | Marielle and Frank
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Summertime Glasbern Inn Wedding | Marielle and Frank

At DPNAK Events, it’s all about turning big wedding ideas into unforgettable memories. Recently, I had the privilege of working with an incredible bride and her mom to bring to life a wedding that perfectly exemplified the magic of love, resilience, and a touch of Mother Nature's unpredictability — all within the remarkable timeframe of six months.

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Your Guide to Creating the Perfect Wedding Welcome Bag for Your Guests
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Your Guide to Creating the Perfect Wedding Welcome Bag for Your Guests

As a couple, one of the most thoughtful gestures you can make for your guests is to prepare wedding welcome bags. These little goodie bags not only express your gratitude for their presence but also set the tone for an unforgettable and smooth wedding experience.

Whether you're hosting your event in a bustling city, like Philadelphia, or a charming countryside, like the rolling hills of Bucks County, I've compiled a comprehensive list of items to include in your wedding welcome bags that will delight and pamper your guests.

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Intimate, Bridgerton-Inspired Hotel Bethlehem 1741 Terrace Wedding | Caroline and Jason
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Intimate, Bridgerton-Inspired Hotel Bethlehem 1741 Terrace Wedding | Caroline and Jason

Welcome, gentle readers, to a captivating day celebrating love, romance, and the sheer opulence of a wedding fit for the pages of a Regency-era novel.

This past May, nestled in the heart of Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, the iconic 1741 Terrace at Hotel Bethlehem recently played host to an enchanting celebration that blended the timeless elegance of Bridgerton with modern-day love.

With Alison Conklin behind the camera lens and Allium Floral Design creating pieces that rivaled the gardens of the Duke of Hastings, it was an HONOR to be part of this day for Caroline and Jason.

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Chelsea and Brian’s Good Vibes Bok Wedding
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Chelsea and Brian’s Good Vibes Bok Wedding

I don’t think I’ve ever had a harder time choosing a handful of photos to share from a wedding. Sonderbird Photography did such an AMAZING job of capturing the day. Each photo captures a moment more perfect than the next.

From the couple, to the details, to the vibes. And boy, were there VIBES.

Chelsea and Brian’s wedding at Bok was full of joy, fun, really good vibes, and incredibly good people. Plus donuts. 🍩

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